Domestic Violence is a learned behavior.
What will you choose? What will your partner choose?
During our lives we are taught many ways to view our role in society. These teachings create a belief system that defines who we are and how we interact with our communities, families, and other individuals. Our Grandfathers/mothers, Uncles/Aunties, Fathers/Mothers, and other relatives show us examples of how to be wo/men. We also learn about being wo/men from friends, acquaintances, and others in the community. What we learn from our environment tends to be a reflection of how we respond to the larger community.
Violence in the home disrupts the balance of the community. In all relationships between there will be conflicts. People get angry, arguments happen, and feelings get hurt. During these conflicts we choose how we are going to act and react to the situation. Violence is a choice. When we focus only on what we want, or think we have to “win” the argument or come out on top during disagreements, this may lead us to use threats or violence to gain or maintain control of the situation. We always have choices. Choose to walk away. Choose non-violent actions/reactions.
StrongHearts Native Helpline is a 24/7 safe, confidential and anonymous domestic and sexual violence helpline for Native Americans and Alaska Natives, offering support and advocacy at 1 844-762-8483. Get the help you need. Safety for your children. Domestic Violence Help. Safety for your pets.
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